I literally haven’t written any posts since April, so here it goes. Life… has been a whirlwind. I have finally decided to do everything I’ve been saying…… Read more “The Last 3 Months.”
Author: anopensecret
Nigerian American | Therapist| Writer|
Thoughts on all things related to wellness, mental health, and love.
Stop Normalizing Infidelity.
We need to talk about the normalization and glorification of infidelity. It has risen to astronomical levels, and whether we think it affects our thoughts on marriage…… Read more “Stop Normalizing Infidelity.”
Mercury Retrograde & Reflections on 30.
It’s been almost two months since I’ve written anything. I recently turned 30, and honestly, it isn’t anything that I expected it to be. Kinda feels like…… Read more “Mercury Retrograde & Reflections on 30.”
The Truth About Suffering.
Note: I’ve been sitting on this post for weeks, and literally as I type this, I realized that Valentine’s Day is this week. I usually dedicate a…… Read more “The Truth About Suffering.”
A Piece on Emotional Men.
First off, Happy New Year. I know it’s been a minute since we last connected. Let’s just say, the transition from ’17 to ’18 has been bumpier…… Read more “A Piece on Emotional Men.”
The Fragility of Relationships.
What if you started something new, and in the back of your mind, that there was a possibility of an ending? It’s easy in the beginning to…… Read more “The Fragility of Relationships.”
Is Love That Hard or Are We That Difficult?
I’m convinced that our generation loves to make shit hard. Particularly when it comes to cultivating relationships. Between cuffing season, cultivating rosters, the lack of clarity and…… Read more “Is Love That Hard or Are We That Difficult?”
Bertram Byam
It’s fall. Despite it being 82 degrees in October, fall is here, I swear! I am kicking off October the right way with a featured creative,…… Read more “Bertram Byam”
Ho-Tation Myths & Fairytales.
“How you tryna complete somebody else’s life, when your ass isn’t even …… Read more “Ho-Tation Myths & Fairytales.”
Summer Truths.
It’s been weeks since I wrote anything. A bit unusual for me, but I gotta keep it honest. I lost the energy and drive to write. Initially…… Read more “Summer Truths.”
