As the year draws to a close, and the dawn of a new decade is upon us, I have been thinking about how 2019 will end. It… Read more “The Truth About Trauma Bonds.”
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Learning to Settle.
I have felt unsettled for the last nine months. Stepping unsteadily into 2019, shouldering every transition that occurred personally and professionally. I have yet to feel like… Read more “Learning to Settle.”
Catching Up.
Hello, old friend. It’s been so long since I’ve written anything on here. The truth is, the last 7 months have been literally, life-changing. So let’s get… Read more “Catching Up.”
Hello, 2019.
Normally, I start the year off with a post, reflecting on the previous year. But honestly, life has gotten away from me, and I’m just now settling… Read more “Hello, 2019.”
Are You the Halle Berry of Relationships?
Halle Berry has been long revered in the black community as one the baddest in the game. Best known for her roles in Monster’s Ball (Academy Award… Read more “Are You the Halle Berry of Relationships?”
Dissecting Molly: Insecure Season 3
Let me just say, the season finale of Insecure Season 3, is by far one of my favorite episodes ever written. It ended the exact way I… Read more “Dissecting Molly: Insecure Season 3”
LoveIs : A Review
So recently, my roommate put me on to that show that is all over Black Instagram and Twitter: “LoveIs.” For those of you not hip to the game,… Read more “LoveIs : A Review”
Release and Reset.
Iʼve been releasing things for the past few months. Literally people, places, and things. Itʼs been a constant theme as of late, and I canʼt say itʼs… Read more “Release and Reset.”
The Last 3 Months.
I literally haven’t written any posts since April, so here it goes. Life… has been a whirlwind. I have finally decided to do everything I’ve been saying… Read more “The Last 3 Months.”
Stop Normalizing Infidelity.
We need to talk about the normalization and glorification of infidelity. It has risen to astronomical levels, and whether we think it affects our thoughts on marriage… Read more “Stop Normalizing Infidelity.”
