I don’t wanna give you the wrong impression I need love and affection And I hope I’m not sounding too desperate I need love and affection Love,…… Read more “Rules of Affection: Part One”
Author: anopensecret
Nigerian American | Therapist| Writer|
Thoughts on all things related to wellness, mental health, and love.
Dating…Just to Date ( and why that sh!t is whack).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SqrcWka2HxM Just because he’s good company doesn’t mean I fancy him, but then maybe fancying someone isn’t what it’s all about? Maybe I’ve been wrong in waiting…… Read more “Dating…Just to Date ( and why that sh!t is whack).”
Courage in Love.
I feel like I write the best when my mind is literally a clusterfuck. So here we are. I’ve been sitting on this idea for a minute,…… Read more “Courage in Love.”
Love & Fear.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxy574tBK5A So what are you, what are you, what are you so afraid of? Darling you, you give but you cannot take love I’ve been thinking a…… Read more “Love & Fear.”
True Life: I Don’t Know How To Date (and neither do you.)
Hello Lovers and Friends!I’m writing to you from the confines of grandma’s blanket, nursing what might be the worst cold I’ve ever had. Fuck winter, right? Anyways,…… Read more “True Life: I Don’t Know How To Date (and neither do you.)”
Out with the Old, In with the New: The 2014 Edition
Shit is late…..but still relevant. Sorry guys, I’ve been ghost for a little bit. But ya’ll know how the holidays be, stressful and financially draining. I will…… Read more “Out with the Old, In with the New: The 2014 Edition”
Lessons in Love: the 2013 edition
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24gjW4Oqj2k Twenty five was definitely a learning year for me. I have definitely grown in many ways as a person, and have discovered a lot of things…… Read more “Lessons in Love: the 2013 edition”
Be Better, Not Bitter.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1qbzo9DnAqA Girls are a little crazy. Now before you get offended, remember two things. 1) I am a girl. 2) At some point in time, you as…… Read more “Be Better, Not Bitter.”
The ‘Something’ Relationship & Why It’s Bullshit.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VeLFunSQ20 ‘ You’re not together but you’re not ‘nothing.’ Because you’re not nothing, you’re something.‘-B.Carmichael I know at least a handful of people, including myself, that have found…… Read more “The ‘Something’ Relationship & Why It’s Bullshit.”
Tunnel Vision: Moving On From the Wrong One
Now that I know the truth, what am I supposed to do? Changing up and breaking all my rules ever since we met I’m so gone, I’m…… Read more “Tunnel Vision: Moving On From the Wrong One”
