Everything that could’ve happened in 2016, happened in 2016. I’ve talked briefly about some life obstacles I had to battle over the past year and it has led me here.
It’s raining. I definitely have a hangover, but I’m coming off of a pretty amazing NYE. I spent it exactly how I wanted it to: with amazing friends and a lot of whiskey. After a fuckin crazy year I needed to transition into 2017 calmly.
I haven’t really gone into depth about my thoughts on LOVE as I usually do. It was a year, man. Two very significant relationships taught me a lot about myself, and have changed me for the better I would say.
Be yourself. Always.
Ask for what you want.
Don’t entertain anyone who won’t give you what you want, it’s a waste of time.
It’s a blessing to be able to enjoy alone time.
It’s okay to cry. Mourn then move on.
Don’t take advice from just anybody. No one has all the answers.
Never let anything deter you from believing that love is real and attainable.
Don’t take any shit from anybody. EVER.
You are lovable. You are enough.
Do not put up with one sided anything. That goes for friendships and relationships.
Credentials aren’t everything and there is too much emphasis on them. Does not mean you’re a good person/dateable
Being vulnerable doesn’t make you weak.
Lastly, don’t ever let anybody shame you for being single. You’re fine, you’re exactly where you should be. It’s not a race, just appreciate where you’re at. Everything comes in time.
I thank you all for continuing to read my writing. I don’t know everything. At all. All of my thoughts are just that….mine. If you choose to take any advice, do so at your own risk, so you can’t say I ruined your life.
This year, I intend to do ALL the things:
Become a brand ambassador for a product/company I love.More events.Attend a blogger conference.Write. A Lot.Read a Lot.
LOVE a Lot.